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Fashion Fix

Alright Tumblr, I need your help.

I’m going to a wedding next month and I want to find the perfect dress. It’s the first wedding I’ll be attending where I’m not part of the wedding party, as an adult.  After years of training myself away from strapless dresses and drop waists, I’ve finally gotten pretty good at knowing what styles flatter my figure. I’ve picked a few (ok, more than a few) that I think might work, but I’d love your input in narrowing it down. It’s been oddly difficult to find something modest, but pretty, and age appropriate. It sometimes feels like my options are Forever21 or Mother of the Bride.

Keep in mind: I am 25 years old, 5’6, hourglass shape, and very pale. The wedding is during the day, outdoors in a rose garden, with an evening indoor reception. The bridesmaids are wearing a shade of “peacock” so I’m staying away from anything that approaches turquoise. Obviously, white is out. I don’t know the bride or groom or how traditional they are, so I’m also choosing to skip black (though I’m open to considering black prints). I’ll be meeting most of my date’s friends and family for the first time.

I much prefer to try everything on, so I’ll be seeking out a few favorites in store this week and the real deciding factor will be how they fit in person. But in the meantime I’m desperate for a little direction.

Have at it!

Eyelet Branch Halter Dress - Anthropologie

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Adrianna Papell Beaded Dress - Blouson

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Summer Meadow Block Maxi - French Connection

Bird and Bloom Dress - Anthropologie

Evie long dress in silk chiffon

Evie Long Dress - J. Crew

Short Sleeve V Neck Ruffle A-Line Dress - BCBGeneration

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Silk Chiffon Maxi Dress - Jill Stuart

Arched Careena Dress - Antrhopologie

Sleeveless A-line Faux Wrap Dress - BCBGeneration

Adrienne dress in silk taffeta

Adrienne Dress  - J. Crew (this comes in prettier colors, but they aren’t pictured)

Glimmered Piperita Dress - Anthropologie 

Lucienne one-shoulder dress in silk chiffon

Lucienne One Shoulder Dress - J. Crew

Louisa dress in silk chiffon

Louisa Dress - J. Crew

Sinclair dress in silk chiffon

Sinclair Dress - J. Crew

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Tie Dye Dress - Akiko

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Veronica Printed Dress - Guess

Evie dress in silk chiffon

Evie Dress - J. Crew

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Colorblock Dress - Laundry by Shelli Segal

Thornbill Dress - Antrhopologie

Coral Rose Dress - Anthropologie

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Pleated Skirt Dress - Quotation

Shaped Feather Dress - Anthropologie

Sleeveless Pleated Dress - DKNYC

Ramona dress in cotton taffeta

Ramona Dress - J. Crew

Akebono Halter Dress - Anthropologie

Sleeveless V Neck Criss Cross Sheath - BCBGeneration

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Halter Gown - Ralph Lauren

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Criss Cross Strap Printed - BCBGeneration

Sleeveless Polka Dot A-Line Dress - Ralph Lauren

Cap Sleeve Faux Wrap Dress - Michael Kors

Sleeveless Pleated Polka Dot Print Dress - Suzi Chin

  1. emes said: ooh the adrianna is beautiful. also i like the lucienne. and the thornbill looks craaaazy flattering.
  2. amusedandbemused said: The Jill Stuart maxi dress is divine, but the Sinclair J. Crew dress is beautiful and summery, especially the lemon yellow colour!
  3. alpha-siren said: Michael Kors cap-sleeve faux-wrap dress (2nd from bottom) or the Adrienne dress (J.Crew) -shown in moss green (which I love) - but regardless of color, either of these 2 styles would be fabulous on your figure and are fresh and young.
  4. exhale said: I love the louisa dress and the bird and bloom dress. Simple, fitted, and conservative enough without being very formal. Although, they’re really all lovely picks!
  5. cotonbiologique said: i say jcrew cotton romona in pink. beatiful.
  6. sitnexttolynn said: Short Sleeve V Neck Ruffle A-Line Dress - BCBGeneration If you don’t mind me saying, several of those dresses were way too matronly for a young, adorable person such as you. Go for young and fun…not frumpy. Why so modest? Not saying you need to look like some…
  7. megaofmen said: The blue evie long dress would more than likely be best. Its reserved, formal, is in the blue spectrum, so you’ll match into the color choices for the wedding, assuming the bride colored off her bridesmaids. Its also able to be danced in.
  8. jordanmyr1ck said: I work at Anthropologie and I’ve seen a lot of people try on the Akebono Halter dress. It looks particularly great on busty, more shapely women. I’d recommend that!
  9. cassalass said: my votes in no order: evie, sinclair, ramona. also- first time meeting the fam? you always want to keep the boobage to a minimum.
  10. bageldreams said: I would say go to Anthropologie and try on all the dresses that you like and pick one. Navy is great, but so is a bright print. I’d get something that has short sleeves so you could avoid having to bring a cardigan since it may be pretty warm! YAY!
  11. meow1954 said: Shaped Feather Dress, Louisa Dress, Evie Dress.
  12. ladresser said: Halter Gown - Ralph Lauren
  13. laurarose said: I like the Adrianna beaded dress, most of the anthropologies (too hard to decide), and the Criss Cross Strap BCBG one. I’d shy away from the maxi dresses for a wedding - but I’m also generally less fashion forward. They’re beautiful though!
  14. jenniferruiz said: The second dress! it’s so classy! Id stray away from jcrew on the off chance that that’s what the bridesmaids are wearing!
  15. mackenziegracedonaldson said: My choices are: Adrienne - Jcrew (I like that colour or something in the pink/red family) Veronica - Guess, Sleveless DKNY, Laundry Colour Block, Thornbill Anthro. My favourites are Thornbill and Sleveless by DKNY. Girly yet sexy and not too loud. :)
  16. mightequinn said: Bird&Bloom or Veronica Printed.
  17. vladislava said: 2, 10, 11, 21, 24
  18. sc0rnflakess said: I would go with the anthropologie coral rose dress.
  19. angelaserratore said: I have the Anthropologie halter dress and love it very much.
  20. thedanaash said: I love the Anthro ones (I can’t pick!), but if you’re concerned about trying on, J Crew bridal isn’t carried in most stores - it used to be on Madison Ave, but I think it’s moving to the 5th Ave location. aaand it might still be appointment only.
  21. edisonhatesme said: all gorgeous - but I’m in love with the yellow ones and the Glimmered Piperita Dress the most.
  22. gr-atin said: BLUE EVIE OMG
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